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The Six-Question Process
The Six-Question process for coaching is an approach that I have seen work consistently well with executives. This process has produced measurable change in effectiveness (as evaluated by direct reports) with four CEOs that I have personally coached. These CEOs were in totally different industries and worked with very different types of people. One CEO went from an 8 percentile to a 98 percentile score (in four years) doing nothing more than this process. Even better, he found that he actually spent less time with his direct reports the year he was rated a “98” than the year he was rated an “8”! This process has also been shown to produce positive results in the summary 360 degree feedback reports from executive teams.
In using the Six Question process, it is generally recommended that the executive have a one-on-one dialogue with each direct report approximately once each quarter. In most cases the initial dialogues may take more time, but the process generally lasts about 30 minutes after the first couple of sessions. The “rules” of the process are very simple. Both parties are asked to: 1) make each question a dialogue, not a dictate, 2) focus on the future, not the past and 3) listen to the other person’s ideas, try to implement what they can and not try to “prove” the other person is wrong.
1. Where are we going?
The first question deals with the “big picture”. The executive outlines where the larger organization is going in terms of vision, goals and priorities. The executive then asks the direct reports where they think the larger organization should be going. By involving direct reports in this ongoing dialogue, executives can build alignment and commitment to the larger organizational vision.
It is important to note that the Six-Question approach does not assume that the executive will agree with every direct report on every issue. This will not (and should not) be the case. Leadership is not a “popularity contest”. Sometimes direct reports (like all humans) may have bad ideas. In some cases the executive may choose to say, “In this case, I disagree.” It is important that executives focus on understanding disagreements and respecting differences of opinion. It is also important that executives need to only “win the big ones” and that they can “let go” on minor issues that may be more important to their direct reports than to them.
2. Where are you going?
Question two deals with the direct reports’ vision, goals and priorities for their part of the organization. Direct reports discuss where their part of the organization is going. Executives give their view on where they think this part of the organization should be going. By the end of this discussion two types of alignment should have been achieved: 1) the vision, goals and priorities of the direct reports’ parts of the organization should be aligned with the executives’ vision of the larger organization and 2) the individual goals and priorities of executives and direct reports should be aligned.
3. What is going well?
One key element of effective coaching is providing positive recognition for achievement. Executives begin this part of the dialogue with an assessment of what the direct reports and their organizations are doing well. Then executives ask their direct reports a question that is seldom asked, “What do you think that you and your part of the organization are doing well?” By asking this question executives may learn about “good news” that may have otherwise been missed.
In the past five years, I have asked hundreds of executives the question, “Do you feel as busy or busier today than your have felt in your entire life?” About 80% of the executives that I have asked have said yes. A major reason that executives fail to give deserved recognition to direct reports is not maliciousness; it is ignorance. Many executives are so busy that they don’t know all the good things that the people who report to them are doing. Direct reports may feel under-appreciated because executives don’t recognize their achievements. In many cases, the executives would recognize these achievements if they only understood what they were! By asking, “What are you doing well?” executives have a great opportunity to understand positive aspects of performance that they could have otherwise missed. This process has been shown to consistently improve direct reports’ feedback on the item, “Provides positive recognition for achievement.”
4. What are key suggestions for improvement?
Executives begin this part of the dialogue by giving direct reports constructive suggestions for the future. These suggestions should be limited to key “opportunities for improvement”. The average human cannot remember eight unrelated words on a piece of paper! Giving too many suggestions is almost as bad as giving none. Direct reports should listen to the suggestions with a focus on understanding, not judging what is being said. Executives should come across as “trying to help” not “playing God”.
Next, executives should ask another (seldom-asked) great coaching question, “If you were your own coach, what suggestions would you have for yourself?” By listening to their direct reports, executives may learn that their original coaching suggestions need to be modified. Executives may end up saying, “Now that I have heard your ideas, let me change my suggestions. I think the areas that you are discussing are more important than the ones that I mentioned.”
5. How can I help?
As you have gathered from this article, a key to effective coaching is asking the right questions. One of the greatest coaching questions an executive can ask is, “How can I help?” Executives can begin by listening to their direct reports’ suggestions on how they can become more helpful. They can also participate in the dialogue by suggesting approaches and then asking, “Do you feel this approach will help you become more effective?”
In some cases executives who receive poor feedback as coaches attack the problem by simply spending more time coaching. This can do more harm than good. The key to improvement is not to do more coaching. The key is to provide coaching to the right people on the right topics. In some cases less coaching in some areas may be what is needed! By asking executives can make the most effective use of their limited time.
6. What suggestions do you have for me?
Extensive research on the impact of direct report feedback and follow-up on leadership effectiveness has shown a clear, undeniable pattern. Leaders that ask for suggestions from their direct reports – focus on improving 1-2 key behaviors – and follow-up on a quarterly basis – are almost always seen as dramatically increasing in leadership effectiveness . By asking, “What suggestions do you have for me?” executives change the dynamics of the coaching process. Traditional coaching is sometimes thought of as a one-way monologue that focuses on, “Let me tell you what you can do to improve.” The Six-Question approach creates a two-way dialogue that focuses on, “Let’s try to help each other.” Direct reports are much more willing to be coached by executives, if the executives are willing to be coached by them!
In-Between Coaching Sessions
Executives should not limit their coaching interactions to quarterly Six-Question sessions. At the end of each session executives should say, “I am going to take the responsibility to make sure that I have a dialogue with you at least once each quarter. I am going to take the responsibility to cover what I think is most important and to get your suggestions on what you think is most important. I would like you to take the responsibility to contact me at any time you have a need for my help. I cannot promise I will be able to schedule this immediately. I can promise I will make your request a top priority. If I take the responsibility for our quarterly dialogues and you take the responsibility for any ongoing issues, there is no reason that our coaching relationship should not be very productive.”
A key to effective two-way coaching is mutual responsibility. The organizational survey in one of my “Fortune 100” clients pointed out an interesting dilemma. Direct reports criticized their executives for not providing help when it was needed. Executives said that direct reports never asked for help! If the direct reports take the responsibility to ask for coaching (when needed) and the executives take the responsibility to be responsive and helpful, there is a high probability that the entire process will work.
In summary, the Six-Question Process for feedback and coaching is a practical tool that executives can use to become more effective coaches. The six questions are merely meant as broad guidelines. In some cases a Five-Question or Seven-Question approach may be better suited to a particular situation. Executives should be flexible in tailoring this process to fit their unique situations. The key to success is for both executives and direct report to cover the most important topics on a regular basis and to be available to each other for special situations. From my experience few direct reports need or want more coaching than this.
The CEO mentioned earlier (who went from “worst to first” as a coach) made an interesting observation. He said, “Before this process, I thought that I was giving my direct reports what they needed. Unfortunately, my direct reports could not tell the difference between coaching and a social conversation. They were not differentiating between important feedback and ‘chit-chat’. If I said, ‘You are doing a great job’ they didn’t know if I was serious or just ‘being nice’. This process has given me a simple discipline to give them what they need (and give me what I need) in a way that respects my time and theirs.” This is the end result of effective coaching!